UKUCINGA NOKUQINISA

UHarold W. Percival

ISAHLUKO VI

INDLELA YOKUZONWABISA

Icandelo 5

Iminyaka yokuqala yobomi. Ilifa leengqondo.

Xa umntwana ezalwa, yakhe uhlobo lokuphefumla iqulethe ubugqwetha ikamva lobuzwilakhe amava ngexesha ubomi. lo ikamva lobuzwilakhe ibanjwe kwi-germ, ilungele ukukhula ngokukhawuleza njengoko ixesha kunye neemeko ziphantsi. Iimeko kunye nexesha lophuhliso lwe ikamva lobuzwilakhe ziziswa ukukhula, ukukhula kunye nokuqina komzimba, ngokudibeneyo kunye isimo sengqondo ye umenzi edibene naloo mzimba. I isiphelo ukuba namava kubantu abadala ubomi ukude ngelixa umzimba uhlala ungowomntwana. Njengoko umzimba ukhula, iimeko zinikezelwa ngazo zakudala umnqweno imbewu iyantshula kwaye ikhule. Ukukhula kubuyisiwe okanye kuyakhawuleziswa, kuqhubeke okanye kutshintshwe, kuhlobo lwendlela umenzi ucinga ngezi meko.

Iminyaka embalwa yokuqala ye ubomi, ukuya malunga nowesixhenxe, ngokukhawuleza kuphuma ku inkumbulo uninzi lwabantu. Le minyaka ichithwa ekuhlengahlengiseni umzimba kunye nomzimba wayo uhlobo lokuphefumla ngokusebenzisa nge-astral umzimba. Nangona belityiwe, baphakathi kwezona zibalulekileyo kwi ubomi a ukubangumntu.

Njengomthi obunjiweyo, oqeqeshiweyo nothengwe ngumgcini wegadi, kunjalo iminqweno, inkanuko kunye nokuthengiswa kwemilingo kugxilwe kwi uhlobo lokuphefumla bayakhuthazeka, bathintelwe okanye batshintshwe ngabazali nootitshala. Umntwana unobushushu, ubunyangi kunye nobubi, obuthintelwa ngumzali okanye ngutitshala okhusela omncinci kwiimpembelelo ezinobungozi. Uqeqesho, ukhathalelo okanye uxhatshazo lwengqondo indalo abanamava kwasekuqaleni ubomi Ilifa laso ngqo umenzi. Izinto ezisingqongileyo zinikezelwe, ngeempembelelo zazo zemilingo, umoya okhohlakeleyo okanye omsulwa wengqondo kwabo baphathiswe umntwana nendlela afuna ngayo, iminqweno kwaye iimfuno ziyanyangwa, zizinto nje ezibuyayo zangaphambili ukucinga.

Nakuba umnqweno ihlala ikhangwa yi-like umnqweno kunye a umenzi kufuna ukuphinda ubekhona Isalathiselwe kubazali abanokufana iminqweno, ngenxa yokunxibelelana kweentlobo ezahlukeneyo ze isiphelo, i umenzi idla ngokunxulumana nabo iminqweno kwaye iingcinga zahlukile. Ukomelela kwe uphawu, Zona zibhetele kwaye ziya kukunceda ngokulula umenzi woyise naluphi na utyekelo lokuziphatha okubi okwafunyanwa kwangoko ubomi; Kodwa njengoko kuthelekiswa abalinganiswa abambalwa kakhulu, uqeqesho lwengqondo lokuqala lubonelela ngenkqubela kuyo yonke ubomi.

Umzali okanye umgcini lowo uvuthayo, othanda ukuqaqanjelwa ziibhabile, ezingena kwi inkanuko kwaye ifuna imvakalelo, iya kubethelela utyekelo olufanayo kumntwana okhulayo kwaye imvuselele iminqweno nakwindalo ekhula kakuhle. Lilo eli ikamva labo bangazange bakukhathalele ngaphambili iminqweno. Umntwana ovumelekileyo ukuba angcungcutheke kwaye azikhathaze abanye, kwaye nabazali bakhe bayamvumela ukuba abe nayo nayiphi na into ayikhalelayo, ungomnye waba ngelishwa abahlala kumhlaba ubomi; aba barbhari bolu hlanga abanokuthi, nokuba baninzi kangakanani, ngoku ubuntu Ikhula ngaphandle kobuntwana bayo, ibe bambalwa, kwaye iyakuthathwa njengeesampulu zasendle zesizwe esingaphuhliswanga. Yabo iyanzima isiphelo, njengoko kufuneka bavuse kulwazi lwabo ukungazi kwaye batyhafa ngaphambi kokuba bakwazi ukuzihlenga-hlengisa ukuze babe ngocwangco, amalungu angenabuntu ekuhlaleni.

Ukukhuthaza okanye ukuthintela imvakalelo yakhe indalo oko umntwana akufumanayo kungabuyiselo lonyango lwangaphambili lwabanye, okanye ithuba ukufunda ulawulo lwayo iimvakalelo kwaye iminqweno. Umntwana onika ubungqina beetalente, kodwa lowo, ngenxa yeemeko ezinjengokungavunyelwa ngabazali bakhe, ukuba ayeke ukubakhulisa, angakufumana oku kungalunganga kodwa sisibonelelo, ukuba ezinye iindlela zikhoyo zikhona, njengomnqweno we-narcotic okanye usele. Kwimeko yobugcisa bobugcisa, ukuba bavunyelwe ukuba baziveze ngelo xesha, baya kwenza ingqondo indalo Ukuthathelwa ingqalelo ngakumbi, kunokukhuthaza ukunxila kwaye kuyenzakalisa nge-astral umzimba ngokuwuvula kwindawo yokuhlala vag nge-astral ithi. Ukungavumeli uqeqesho lobugcisa kwimeko enjalo kuya kulonakalisa kuphela olu phuhliso kwaye kuncede umntwana ukuba axhathise ngokulula idemon yokunxila. Kwangokunjalo ixesha, abazali abathi ngenxa yokunqongophala kweendlela okanye ngaphandle kokubonakala sizathu anike inkcaso yokuthambekiswa ngumntwana engqondweni, uhlala enika inkcaso enjalo ekuhlawuleni amanqaku amadala okanye ngenxa yokuba umenzi ayisebenzisanga Mathuba ebinayo ngaphambili.

Abo bayikhuthazayo inkanuko, okanye onceda ukuphuhlisa ubuqili bayo okanye umnqweno wayo kwinto engeyoyakhe, okanye ongalunikeliyo utyekelo lwalo lokuzihlaziya okanye ukunyoluka, zenzelwe ukubonelela ngeemeko ezifana nelifa lemvelo lendalo lomntwana elidlulileyo. Ngale meko umntwana kufuneka umsebenzi okwangoku ukuze uboyise kwaye ubalawule.

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